Selfish Friends

Have you ever had one? A selfish friend?

This is one of the worst people to have selfish tendancies, and in my case it's my bestfriend.

She has been acting real brand new lately and it's getting on my fucking nerves. Everything has got to revolve around her and she acts mad jealous of me and our other friends. If it's not planned or setup or revolving around her she "doesn't feel like it" or "she's busy".

This past Thursday was Thanksgiving and happened to be her birthday. She got all pissed off at me and some of our other friends because we didn't call her despite the fact that we wished her Happy Birthday before we got off for Thanksgiving break.

It's Thanksgiving! Did she ever think that WE might have been busy! I mean, this is like bigger than Christmas when it comes to cooking and shit. I was cooking, and visiting with my family. MY FAMILY. Not worrying about her "birthday". In case she didn't get the notice, Family comes before friends. I didn't have time to sit and call her ass while I was cooking and spending time with mi familia.

Oh My Fucking God! This pisses me off!

As for Mark (one of our friends). How did she know he's not out of town? Those of us who travel know that calling long distance is hella fucking expensive! Mark could've been busy and he did tell her ass Happy Birthday before break!

You know what? She has never called me or even wished me Happy Birthday since we've been friends. Never not once, and my birthday don't fall on no national holiday!

The selfishness she's been showing lately is making me not want to be around her. Why should I cancel plans just because she doesn't want to do it? Do you know how many things I've done with her that I didn't want to do? But I did them any way because I'm a good friend. I'm tired of being second string in this friendship. I'm tired of being "reprimanded" for doing something she didn't feel was "appropriate".

She's my best friend and all but if she keeps up this behavior, I'm going to have to re-evaluate our friendship.